Mary Lenaburg
Co-Host of The Mary and Jerry Podcast
My name is Mary Lenaburg and I am just tickled pink that you are here. I was raised one of eight kids. My parents weren’t perfect, but they loved us with all they had and raised us to know and love God as we practiced our Catholic faith. I have been married to my favorite USNA Midshipman, Jerry, since 1988. We were blessed with four souls; two we did not get to hold this side of heaven and two we did.
Our son Jonathan is married to our incredibly talented and smart daughter-in-law Jessica. This past fall, they made us grandparents with the birth of their first child, Jude. We are simply over the moon with joy. God is so good.
Our daughter Courtney Elizabeth went home to the Lord on December 27, 2014, at the age of 22. When she was five weeks old, she was diagnosed with intractable seizures with no known cause. She was medically fragile and severely disabled because of the medical treatment sought to stop the seizures. She fought bravely every day, bringing so much joy to the world. She taught us everything we know about unconditional love. She was the heart of our home, our sunshine. She is missed every single day.
I began blogging in 2007, sharing the story of my sweet daughter Courtney as well as my homemaking and homeschooling adventures. I found myself in a position of mentorship and encouraging other special needs moms and families. What a joy it was to find community. That mentoring continues to this day now as a life coach, working with women walking through fire on the way to achieving their long held lifelong dreams as a life coach. What a privilege it is to accompany these fierce and beautiful souls.
In 2019 I became an author, writing my award-winning memoir “Be Brave in the Scared” and followed up with a second book “Be Bold in the Broken” in 2021, both published by Ave Maria Press. I now travel the world to speak, lead retreats and parish missions. I talk about God’s redeeming love, and how he has redeemed and restored my life and my marriage, in which I have faced loss, addiction and trauma. I also speak about grief and walking through challenging seasons always with God in sight. Our Lord is faithful and true always.
Thank you for being here friends. Please do reach out with any questions you may have, or if you’d like me to come and speak. Know that you are prayed for daily, and that you are seen, known, and loved by a God who wants the very best for you always.
Much Love,
Mary
Mary Lenaburg has hosted 36 Episodes.
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Episode 19: Lourdes & Courtney's Prayer Stocking
December 3rd, 2023 | Season 1 | 55 mins 48 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, christmas, christmas family traditions, christmas traditions, jerry lenaburg, mary lenaburg, prayer
In this episode of the Mary & Jerry podcast, we get a greater glimpse into the beautiful life of their daughter, Courtney. They share about Courtney’s intercession on earth and now in Heaven, a sacred Christmas tradition they created after Courtney’s passing, and the most incredible experience they had going to Lourdes with Courtney in 2000.
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Episode 18: The Instahusband
November 26th, 2023 | Season 1 | 52 mins 3 secs
catholic, catholic instagram, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholic speaker, catholicism, instagram, jerry lenaburg, marriage, mary lenaburg
Over the years, Jerry has witnessed Mary’s “sisterhood” grow as more and more followers recognize her gifts of speaking and writing. At first, Jerry’s role as “insta husband” included taking photos of her in good lighting and encouraging her as she gave a talk. Now, they work side by side leading people closer to Christ through their personal instagram accounts and speaking opportunities.
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Episode 17: Talking to College Students About Marriage
November 19th, 2023 | Season 1 | 38 mins 2 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic marriage prep, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, college marriage, marriage, marriage prep, mary lenaburg
Mary & Jerry recently spoke to a group of college students about marriage. So they took their talk and turned it into this week’s podcast! They discuss what to expect, advice, how to prepare and more.
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Episode 16: Digging Through the Archives of our Childhood
November 12th, 2023 | Season 1 | 53 mins 49 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, childhood, childhood memories, jerry lenaburg, mary lenaburg, reminiscing
This episode is a walk down memory lane for Mary & Jerry. We get to know Mary & Jerry more personally as they go through their childhood boxes. They share how in many ways, their characteristics as children and the way they were raised made them who they are today.
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Episode 15: Hallmark Christmas Movies
November 5th, 2023 | Season 1 | 47 mins 23 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, hallmark, hallmark channel, hallmark christmas, hallmark christmas movies, mary lenaburg
As the official Hallmark season approaches, it’s time to light up your Christmas tree, make some hot chocolate (or pour yourself some bourbon), and follow along to Mary & Jerry’s traditional annual reviews of these romance films.
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Episode 14: Bring Back That Loving Feeling
October 29th, 2023 | Season 1 | 45 mins 43 secs
catholic, catholic divorce, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, happy marriage tips, jerry lenaburg, marriage tips, mary lenaburg, relationship advice
6 Steps for a better marriage relationship.
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Episode 13: Pumpkin Spice vs. Old Spice
October 22nd, 2023 | Season 1 | 50 mins 8 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, jerry lenaburg, marriage, mary lenaburg, men vs. women, old spice, pumpkin spice
As Jerry likes to say, Pumpkin Spice vs. Old Spice. Or as Mary likes to say, Menopause vs “Manopause.” In this episode of the Mary & Jerry podcast, they talk about the differences between women and men.
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Episode 12: Jerry's Conversion Story
October 15th, 2023 | Season 1 | 52 mins 40 secs
catholic, catholic conversion, catholic converts, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, conversion story, mary lenaburg
We get to hear everything from Jerry’s first “Mass aerobics” experience to raising his children Catholic to diving into the history of the Church.
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Episode 11: Chip and Joanna, Watch Out!
October 8th, 2023 | Season 1 | 38 mins 16 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, chip and joanna, chip and joanna gaines, decorating house, home decor, mary lenaburg
Mary makes her fun personality translate into her home design. But traffic orange shower curtains aren’t for everybody - specifically Jerry. In this episode of the Mary & Jerry podcast, they discuss how to make your house a home for both spouses. It’s, as always, an episode of fun banter and wisdom.
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Episode 10: When Trust is Broken
October 1st, 2023 | Season 1 | 47 mins 57 secs
broken trust, catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, healing, jerry lenaburg, mary lenaburg
Mary & Jerry answer another important question they receive often: What do you do when trust has been broken in your marriage?
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Episode 9: Mary's Birthday!
September 24th, 2023 | Season 1 | 46 mins 20 secs
birthday, catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, happy birthday, jerry lenaburg, mary lenaburg
Happy Birthday Mary!! In this special episode, Jerry asks Mary fun questions that lead them down a path of sharing hilarious stories of Mary’s childhood (how did she make it to tell these tales?) and bestow on their listeners some wisdom she has learned about motherhood and her identity in Christ.
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Episode 8: Remembering Courtney
September 17th, 2023 | Season 1 | 48 mins 58 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, grief, losing a child, mary lenaburg, mourning, parenting
In this episode, Mary & Jerry share their hearts with their listeners as they remember their beautiful daughter, Courtney.
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Episode 7: Trust | Walking on Water
September 10th, 2023 | Season 1 | 27 mins 25 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, jerry lenaburg, mary lenaburg, patience, waiting, walking on water
In today’s episode, Mary & Jerry talk about the number one question they get in their dm’s: How do you trust God in the midst of a storm? Sometimes it feels like God “likes a cliffhanger” and things aren’t going the way we planned. Mary & Jerry teach us how they’ve learned to trust Him in the waiting and to recognize that the Lord is never outdone in generosity.
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Episode 6: Mary Goes To The Farm
September 3rd, 2023 | Season 1 | 47 mins 47 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, in laws, in laws issues in marriage, mary lenaburg
This week, our favorite couple discusses relationships with in-laws. These can be beautiful to very tough and everywhere in between.
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Episode 5: Date Night
August 27th, 2023 | Season 1 | 26 mins 53 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, date night, date nights, mary catholic, mary lenaburg
Mary & Jerry talk about the importance of date night for married couples. It's a chance to look eye to eye, reconnect & focus on the most important part of your marriage: each other. Work, family & our personal lives can often take our focus, so scheduling date nights is a great way to make sure your marriage stays strong.
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Episode 4: Marriage
August 20th, 2023 | Season 1 | 28 mins 15 secs
catholic, catholic marriage, catholic marriage prep, catholic parenting, catholic podcast, catholic podcasts, catholicism, marriage, marriage prep, mary lenaburg
In this UNSCRIPTED episode, Mary & Jerry show us where their brains go and, of course, it’s a lot of fun. They discuss their pastor asking them to be a mentor couple, how unequipped they felt, and the beautiful fruit that came from being raw & personal with their story. As they share and laugh together, they come up with at least 4 new podcast ideas. We can’t wait for those episodes to come out. Sit back, listen, and laugh with us.